In our selection of calm dog breeds, we cover low-maintenance, lazy, and apartment-friendly options. Even among larger breeds, some love lounging and acting like lap dogs. They’re content with a game of fetch or having treats delivered. These adorable breeds are perfect for singles, couples, or families seeking a mellow furry companion.
English cocker spaniel
While an English cocker spaniel is bred for flushing and retrieving game birds, it surprisingly finds contentment indoors, nestled next to the family. This doesn’t mean it won’t enjoy a spirited walk or retrieving toys in the yard; this sporting breed embodies the “work hard, play hard” ethos.
“English cocker spaniels are characterized by their joyful, constantly wagging tail. They thrive on affection,” remarks Colleen Demling-Riley, founder of Pawtopia Dog Training. Calm and eager to please, they’re easily trainable. When cuddled and petted, don’t be surprised if they nuzzle or give gentle licks, encouraging you to continue.
Whippet
“Whippets are incredibly affectionate towards their family and strangers alike,” notes Demling-Riley. Notably, siblings “Bourbon” and “Whiskey” made history by winning Best in Show at the AKC National Championship Dog Show in 2018 and 2020, a rare feat for littermates.
“These dogs thrive on proper exercise but also enjoy lazy days as couch potatoes,” Demling-Riley continues. With their exceptional speed, they need enclosed areas to run freely.
They’re great playmates for kids and aren’t prone to excessive barking. However, their strong prey drive means they may chase small animals. It’s essential to introduce them to other pets cautiously or raise them alongside.
Golden retriever
The golden retriever’s enduring popularity stems from their laid-back nature, affection for family, and gentle demeanor with children, making them perfect family pets.
“They excel in service and therapy roles. While playful in youth, a mature golden retriever is calmer,” notes Laura Nativo, a certified dog trainer advisor for DOGTV.
Goldens enjoy learning and playing fetch, making activities like obedience and agility ideal for them. Their eagerness to please also makes them suitable for first-time owners.
Tibetan spaniel
“Tibetan spaniels, originally bred to be companions to monks, form strong bonds with their owners. Their smaller size often makes them more manageable compared to other small, highly energetic breeds,” explains Nativo.
However, Tibetan spaniels aren’t couch potatoes. They enjoy playful activities but also cherish quiet moments, often choosing to rest on your lap or perch high on the back of the sofa to observe their surroundings.
Their behavior may resemble that of cats, which could explain why Tibbies are known for getting along well with feline companions.
Saint Bernard
While mountain dog breeds, like the Saint Bernard, are often associated with heroic rescues, their calm and collected demeanor isn’t guaranteed, notes Nativo. “A well-trained, socialized, and fulfilled adult Saint Bernard is more likely to be calm and relaxed indoors.”
Typically, Saint Bernards are recognized for their patience, tranquility, and gentle nature. They thrive on companionship and enjoy having tasks to accomplish. “Given their heritage of pulling, it’s beneficial to engage them with activities like cart pulling or backpack walks,” Nativo suggests. It’s crucial to note that while they adore cold weather, Saint Bernards struggle with heat and should be kept indoors with air conditioning on hot days.
Pug
Your family may find themselves competing for the chance to cuddle and snuggle with the adorable smushed-face muzzle of a pug. Fortunately, these easygoing companions don’t play favorites; they’re content as long as someone is giving them attention. However, pugs aren’t just passive recipients of affection; they also enjoy being the center of attention and entertaining the family with their playful and happy-go-lucky antics.
“The pug is renowned for its calm, well-adjusted, and easygoing nature,” says Demling-Riley. “Requiring minimal exercise, they adore children, effortlessly befriend strangers, and adapt well to various living environments, from small apartments to larger properties.”
Newfoundland
The Newfoundland, affectionately known as “the nanny dog,” is unparalleled in its devotion to and empathy for children. This is a blessing for parents, especially during challenging moments with their kids.
“Newfies, despite their 100-plus pounds of fur and drool, are cherished for their affectionate and good-natured temperament,” notes Demling-Riley. “They adore children and are easily trainable.”
While their imposing size might suggest they’re watchdogs, Newfoundlands lean more towards guarding and protecting, particularly when it comes to keeping a watchful eye on children. Renowned for their swimming abilities, they’re celebrated for their lifesaving skills, often pulling people out of the water to safety.
Biewer terrier
While calmness isn’t typically associated with terrier breeds, the Beagle terrier defies this stereotype. Pronounced “Beaver,” this endearing little companion resembles a Yorkie more than a beaver. Standing just under a foot tall and weighing around eight pounds, this mellow pooch is incredibly portable and boasts a sweet disposition that melts hearts.
Despite their delicate appearance, Beagle terriers are surprisingly athletic and excel as energetic walkers, hikers, or competitors in agility competitions. “They are always eager to please and highly trainable,” notes veterinarian Marthina “Marty” Greer, DVM, co-owner and medical director of Veterinary Village in Lomira, Wisconsin. Additionally, they make loyal family members, with a life expectancy of around 16 years.
Bulldog
It’s hard to decide what’s more captivating: the bulldog’s distinctive swagger from its sturdy and compact physique or the charming (mostly) snoring that emanates from its adorable smooshed-in nose.
“The English bulldog makes for a delightful family companion, especially for those seeking a dog with a more relaxed demeanor after a long day at work. They’re typically calm and can often be found lounging under the dining room table,” says Dr. Greer.
Despite their muscular 50-pound frame, bulldogs are not deterred from attempting to be lapdogs. However, their adorable smooshed-in snout, while endearing, can pose challenges in regulating body temperature in hot weather and increase the risk of heatstroke.
Cavalier King Charles spaniel
The Cavalier King Charles spaniel’s irresistibly cute face and sweet demeanor make it a unanimous favorite among families. With their big dreamy eyes, they effortlessly captivate anyone who gazes upon them.
“Most dogs of this breed are quiet, gentle, and adore people, making them great companions for both humans and other dogs,” says Dr. Greer. They seamlessly adapt to the lifestyle of their family, whether they’re part of an active household or prefer quiet evenings at home.
If they had a doggy profile, it would likely read, “I’m happiest when you’re happy and content to go with the flow of family life. Whether it’s curling up for TV time, silently keeping you company during Zoom calls, or joining in for some backyard ball-chasing, I’m ready to be your loyal companion.”
Welsh Corgi
Great Pyrenees
“The Great Pyrenees truly lives up to its name. This massive dog, weighing around 100 pounds, exudes gentleness,” remarks Dr. Greer. With its serene demeanor and luxurious coat, it’s no wonder the kids might vie for the privilege of sharing their room with this furry friend.
Although they can be a bit stubborn, their devotion to guarding the family makes it easy to overlook. “Great Pyrenees are generally laid-back and quiet indoors, making them wonderful companions for children. However, due to their size, close supervision is necessary to prevent accidental overwhelming of children by their sheer mass,” explains Dr. Greer.
Pekingese
If your family prefers a small, sweet, fluffy, and cuddly breed with limited athletic abilities, the Pekingese could be the perfect choice.
“The Pekingese is a quiet dog that doesn’t require much activity or exercise,” notes Dr. Greer. Their shorter muzzle can make breathing more challenging during exertion, naturally leading them to be more sedentary.
While they make excellent companions for quiet families, they are not typically active enough to excel in performance activities such as agility or obedience. Additionally, their long coat, while beautiful, can be kept shorter for easier maintenance.
Havanese
If your family prefers a small, sweet, fluffy, and cuddly breed with limited athletic abilities, the Pekingese could be the perfect choice.
“The Pekingese is a quiet dog that doesn’t require much activity or exercise,” notes Dr. Greer. Their shorter muzzle can make breathing more challenging during exertion, naturally leading them to be more sedentary.
While they make excellent companions for quiet families, they are not typically active enough to excel in performance activities such as agility or obedience. Additionally, their long coat, while beautiful, can be kept shorter for easier maintenance.
Basset hound
With a sense of smell rivaled only by the bloodhound, the Basset hound may occasionally become absorbed in investigating scents, potentially ignoring the family temporarily. However, this can be viewed as a fun adventure of discovery for the family to enjoy together.
“They tend to have lower energy levels and thoroughly enjoy following scents,” explains Hof. While this trait can sometimes be perceived as stubbornness or obstinacy, in the right environment, Basset hounds make wonderful family members.
According to Hof, the ideal home for a Basset hound is one where their patient, loyal, low-key, and occasionally stubborn nature is anticipated and valued. Ultimately, their charming and lovable disposition outweighs any minor challenges presented by their occasional bullheadedness.
Border terrier
Here’s another exception to the typical temperament of terriers among calm dog breeds—the Border terrier. “While terriers are often known for their lively energy and tenacity, the Border terrier tends to be less intense while still retaining that characteristic bounce,” notes Hof.
This charming, scruffy, and robust terrier breed isn’t as stubborn or independent as some of its relatives. Instead, it’s known for its mellow and affectionate nature at home. During playtime outdoors, you may witness their hallmark terrier traits of hunting, as they might become distracted by a squirrel, momentarily diverting their attention from playing with the kids.
Regardless of breed or temperament, all dogs benefit from training and socialization, which helps them become better family members.
Leonberger
When it comes to size, the Leonberger exceeds even the Newfoundland, making it one of the largest calm dog breeds. Weighing as much as an adult human, with females tipping the scales around 140 pounds and males reaching up to 170 pounds, everything about this breed is supersized.
Despite its colossal stature, the Leonberger boasts an equally enormous heart filled with love for everyone—be it people, other dogs, or animals. Alongside its remarkable patience, this gentle giant offers heaps of affection and devoted companionship to its family.
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